Unresolved conflict. The churning within that promotes seething. The bile of bitterness welling up to choke off words. The cancer that eats away the softness of the heart and leaves stone in its place. Seek humility. Seek the face of Grace. When our own need of Him is seen, we suddenly look at others with more forgiving eyes. How could I not forgive while He so readily forgives me? This doesn’t make what the other person did right. It makes me right with God. Leave the judgment in the hands of the Divine Judge.